How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 02:21

How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

That's it for today.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

What if you were the only and last person left on Earth. How will you survive and what would you do with your life?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Ask yourself:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.